Buddy & Ashley
Our Wedding
Message From the Couple
Welcome to our wedding website — we’re so excited to celebrate our special day with all of you in beautiful Mexico!
#VivaLosSheffers
UPDATE ON CATAMARAN TOUR - Because of the Super Bowl airing the same day, we have moved the time slot to 12:45pm-3:45pm. Please RSVP if you’d like to join by January 31st. Details listed below. Thank you! 🥳
Please RSVP/Book your stay By December 7th, 2025
👗 Dress Code: Beach Formal
Florals highly encouraged 🌸🌺🌸🌺
Feel free to break out your favorite heels! Even though we’re near the beach, our ceremony and reception are on hardwood floors.
📍 Staying Off-Site?
For those of you staying off-resort — RSVP at the bottom of this page. Please note: An off-site guest fee of $100 per person will apply on the wedding day, payable upon arrival.
📬 RSVP
Please let us know if you'll be attending by submitting your RSVP below — whether you’re staying on or off the resort.
👶 Children at the Wedding
While we adore your little ones and welcome them to enjoy the resort and vacation with you,the ceremony and reception will be an adults-only event for guests aged 12 and up.Thank you for understanding and helping us create a relaxed, unforgettable evening.
📲 Restaurant Reservations – Download the Palladium Hotel Group App!
To make the most of your stay and enjoy all the amazing dining options at the resort, please download the Palladium Hotel Group app before your arrival.
Why it’s important:The number one complaint from past guests is not being able to get into restaurants without a reservation. Prior reservation is required in MOST restaurants on the premises, so it's best to be prepared.
Here’s what you need to do:
Download the app from the App Store or Google Play.
Make your restaurant reservations as soon as possible for the best availability.
Don't miss out on the amazing food – book early and enjoy stress-free dining all week!
About Us
Buddy and Ashley first met in 2001 at Traverse City West Junior High.Though life took them to different cities for college, they stayed in touch — occasionally crossing paths over the years.
Fast forward to 2017, they reunited at a country music festival and have been inseparable ever since.
On Memorial Day 2024, Buddy proposed in front of the iconic Bethesda Fountain in Central Park, NYC, marking the start of their next adventure together.
Gift Registries
Wedding Party
Ashley Richard
Maid of Honor
Ashley & Ash became “A1 & A2” slinging steaks at Volare. What started as a server-side alliance turned into an unbreakable bond filled with inside jokes, wine nights, and the occasional matching outfit. Ride or die since day one.
Peyton Bertram
Son of the Bride
Peyton’s been front-row to his mom’s strength and love. Now he’s honored to walk her down the aisle. He promises to keep tears mostly in check, but those dance moves? Totally spontaneous.
Bryce Spiker
Best Man
Friends. Roommates. Partners in crime. Bromance legends. Bryce and Buddy’s bond has worn many hats over the years — but now, it’s got a brand-new title: Best Man.
Patrick Curtis
Flower Man
Proving that lifelong friendships come with unexpected job titles, Pat steps in as our Flower Man. Pat will gracefully scatter petals and set the perfect tone—bringing both beauty and a smile to the aisle.
Itinerary
Welcome Party
February 5th
8:00 PM - 10:00 PM
📍 Lobby Bar
Let the celebrations begin! Join us for a relaxed evening of cocktails, conversation, and laughter as we toast to the start of an unforgettable week. Swing by the lobby bar, grab a drink, and get to know familiar faces and new friends alike.
Wedding Ceremony
February 7th
4:00 PM - 4:30 PM
📍 Sunset Sky Terrace
Join us as we exchange vows on the stunning upper terrace of Grand Palladium, surrounded by loved ones and the ocean breeze
Cocktail Hour
February 7th
4:30 PM - 5:30 PM
📍 Oceanview Deck
Sip, mingle, and take in the beautiful scenery. Enjoy signature cocktails and hors d'oeuvres as we ease into the evening festivities.
Wedding Reception
February 7th
5:30 PM - 9:30 PM
📍 Oceanview Deck
Dinner, dancing, and celebration under the stars. Bring your energy (and your best moves!) for an unforgettable night of love, laughter, and happily ever after.
🌅 Catamaran Tour - Alley Cat Sailing Adventures
February 8th
12:45 PM - 3:45 PM
📍Marina in La Cruz de Huanacaxtle, Mexico
We’re so excited to celebrate with you aboard a private 3-hour catamaran cruise! We’ll have a shuttle ready at the resort. Pick up time 12:15. We will meet at the La Cruz Marina in the charming seaside town of La Cruz de Huanacaxtle, just a quick 13-minute drive from the resort. From there, we'll sail along the coastline to a scenic spot where we’ll drop anchor, relax, and enjoy the warm waters. The catamaran is fully equipped for fun, including: • Paddle boards • A floating lily pad • A diving platform • Fishing rods Your experience includes: • Freshly prepared appetizers from a private onboard chef • Full open bar • Great company, stunning views, and unforgettable memories. Cost: $115 per person This includes all food, drinks, and a 15% gratuity. Capacity is limited to 40 guests, so be sure to secure your spot early! To RSVP, please send payment via Venmo: 🔗 https://venmo.com/u/Asmith218
Accommodations
Puerto Vallarta
Grand Palladium Vallarta
Surrounded by lush tropical vegetation and located on its own private white sand beach this resort is the perfect place to bring the whole family to relax and unwind. With clubs for kids of all ages, a baby club, mini club and junior club, finding activities for the kids to do is easy. Spend some time relaxing in the sun by one of the pools, the infinity pool is an adult’s only pool where you can savor the peace and quiet. Enjoy the beautiful turquoise water surfing, kayaking or snorkeling. Go for a horseback ride on the beach or do some whale watching. Zentropia, the resort spa, offers many treatments such as massage and facials and features a Jacuzzi, new saunas and vapor baths. The resort has two buffet style and four A la carterestaurants that offer an array of cuisine to choose from, a sports bar offers an endless variety of snacks to enjoy throughout your stay.
Travel Information
We have partnered with Destify to make booking your travel easy. Destify offers 24/7 customer support, low price guarantees, low deposits, and free perks. Please book your stay with our group to ensure easy planning and communication for all wedding events and to maximize the perks offered to our group.
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Make your reservation as soon as possible to guarantee your room.
All packages are all-inclusive with unlimited dining and beverages (alcoholic & non-alcoholic), activities, entertainment, taxes and fees.
Round trip ground transportation from the airport is available for purchase.
Reservations can be held for a low, non-refundable deposit of $150 per person. Final payments are due 65 days prior to your departure date. Pricing and availability are subject to change at any time. Price matching is available at the time of booking; restrictions apply. Minimum night stays can change at any time.
We do not have a room block reserved so no space is being held at the hotel. Book your stay as soon as possible to guarantee your room at the resort.